Pity Party - No Thank You!

On this journey to be a deliberate creator, the key to being good at it is to protect your energy/vibrational levels. People will constantly try to pull you into their drama if you let them. While you care for them and want the best for them, you also have to be mindful of your own spiritual health. Remember the key to being a deliberate creator is staying in a constant state of feeling good/happiness. Pity party is a kryptonite to your happiness. When people are not feeling good they tend to want to share that energy with others. You know that saying "misery loves company"? Sometimes they truly want cheering up but most time than not they just want to give you a front row seat to their misery. They want to give a detailed account as to why they are not feeling their best. As you listen to them, it can brings you down to their level if you are not emotionally strong enough. Attempts to elevate/uplift them may prove futile and before you know it you are drawing negative energy to yourself as well.

The best way to avoid the pitfall of pity parries is to just not attend. When anyone invites you to one, politely decline the invite. The minute you recognize the invite, tell them to try and find something good to focus on that will lift their spirits. Point out that the more they regurgitate the events that lead to them needing to throw a pity party the worst they will feel. Reliving the event(s) will only further diminish their vibrational level. They need to get a handle on their emotions and find a way to brush it off. Truth is no one does you anything short of putting their hands on you physically. Their words and/or actions are all open to your interpretation. As such, you have the choice to choose how to interpret their words/actions. No matter how the person may intend it, choose to take it as a compliment. By so doing, you protect your vibrational levels and keep your happy disposition.

I know you've heard that "nobody can make you feel bad without your permission" before. Well it is worth repeating. When you allow people's words/actions to dictate how you feel, you give up your power. Likewise, when you attend pity parties, you open up yourself to becoming engulfed in other people's unhappiness. Your only goal should be to stay in a constant state of happiness. Anything that threatens that should be avoided at all cost. I'm just saying - I got issues, what about you?)i(

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