https://www.bossiernow.com/missing-mail-in-south-bossier-postal-carrier-resigns/ |
It doesn’t happen often but when it does, it is the most
frustrating feeling ever – mail gone missing. Sure there are a number of
reasons why something you mail may never reach its intended recipient, i.e.
wrong address, lost in route, stolen, slipped off clerk’s work space onto
floor, misdirected/sent to wrong address, etc. No matter the reason, the
feeling is still the same – disappointment, plain and simple. It happened to me
several times, actually more times than I care to remember but the ones that
stuck out for me are the ones that contained money and/or written words that
were never received.
https://www.usps.com/help/missing-mail.htm |
Three years ago I mailed a birthday card to an ex. Took some
doing but I finally came up with the right words to convey my feelings but
sadly they would never get read. At first I thought they were just being silly
and denying they received the card but as weeks turned into months they too
shared their disappointment after not receiving the card. They shared with me
that while they were disappointed as I was about the missing card, they were
not surprised because they had witnessed firsthand, discarded mail being
trampled on post office floor behind the counter. Unfortunately for me, it was
not enough to force me to take protective measures. I mean who wants to pay to
certify a simple card that may or may not contain $20 or less? Still having
faith that my cards would reach their intended recipients, and the ones that
went missing would eventually show up, I continued my habit of sending cards
with and without cash through the mail. After all it was only small amounts – a
$20 here and a $10 there.
http://queenoftheclick.com/missing-mail-in-bay-ridge/ |
It would be another year or so before anything went missing
again. One April I mailed a birthday card to my nephew in Florida for his 16th
birthday. Thinking I was being prudent, I waited in line and handed the card
directly to the postal clerk. I’m not sure what happened between the time I
handed it to the clerk and it going missing, but my nephew never received it.
Luckily I had the presence of mind to purchase a money order instead of sending
cash. After about two weeks of no delivery, I confirmed the address with my
nephew then contacted the post office to run a trace on the money order. To my
dismay, they charged me a fee to check on the status of the money order. After
a month or so I received correspondence that the money order was uncashed and a
refund check, less the money order fee, was attached. They further advised that
should the money order surface and is cashed, I would be required to return the
refunded amount. It’s safe to say that
up until now, that money order has yet to surface. Despite the setback of the
missing card, I continue to send cards in the mail because there is just
something about knowing someone cared enough to take the time to pick out a
card and mail it.
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-42878222 |
Anyway, fast forward to April this year were two of my
grandchildren celebrated their birthdays – one turned 7 on the 16th
and the other turned 18 on the 25th. True to form I sent the 7-year
old a birthday card with 8 $1 bills which she received – a few days late but it
arrived just the same. However the one sent to my grandson a week later, which
contained a $20 bill long with words he will never read, mysteriously never
made it to him. Both grandchildren reside at the same address in Dallas, GA.
Oddly enough the two Mother’s Day cards I mailed last week to that same address
were received without incident. How do you explain that? All four cards were
mailed from the Lithonia post office. All Four cards were addressed to the same
address in Dallas, GA. Yet three of them were delivered and one went MIA. I also
just realized that ALL the missing cards were mailed in April – interesting!!
http://postalnews.com/blog/2015/10/26/appeals-board-throws-out-companys-patent-claim-on-usps-returned-mail-process/ |
I am still hopeful that the card I mailed to my 18-year old
grandson will eventually surface as the words it contain were both heartfelt
and encouraging especially at a time when he will not be able to participate in
his high school graduation because of the state of the union. I have to continue
having faith in the system because if I lose faith I will have no effective way
to send cards to my friends and loved ones. To that end, I draw hope from a previous
incident of a missing piece of mail which eventually surfaced. About 10 years ago I mailed my utility
payment to Georgia Power as usual. A month later my statement reflected that my
payment was not received. After checking my bank ledger to ensure I did write
the check I called the power company who informed me that they had just
received my payment that day. Not sure where that mail got held up for more
than a month but I was glad it eventually made its way to where it needed to
be.
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-42878222 |
https://www.storyblocks.com/images/stock/illustration-of-a-man-with-letter-and-mailbox-bq97n8wmowj6gt0o6x |
It is that incident that gives me hope that the missing
birthday card will eventually turn up. Will this change my habit of sending
cards and/or cash through the mail? Not bloody likely but I do say a prayer
every time I put something in the mail that it WILL reach its intended
recipient. After all, if you can’t trust
the US Post Office to do the very thing you pay for them to do – deliver your
mail - who can you trust? I’m just saying. I got issues – what about you? )i(
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